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Crazy?!!!


2010
04.05

I wouldn’t try it .. even if it is for free.. How if it turn out to me a real kidnap? And, I am still thinking it is only a game.. jialat kao kao..

eg

Kidnapper: Ransom.. we want money!!

Me: Hahahhaahahhaa… wahlau.. so serious..

Kidnapper: We kidnap you, you still can laugh ah? Crazy ah.. Stop laughing..!!!

Me: Hahahahahahaha.. let me go lah.. Dont want play already lar..

Kidnapper: ……………………..

source from  the starphoenix

PARIS – Thrill-seekers in France unimpressed by skydiving, rock-climbing and other extreme sports are turning to a new way of testing their limits – designer kidnapping.

 For a pounds 1,000 ($1529) basic abduction package, customers are seized by strangers, bundled into a car, bound and gagged, and kept in a cellar for four hours.

 If that sounds too tame, boat chases and helicopter escapes can be added to the tailor-made experience, and customers kept for longer periods. The maximum incarceration time is 11 hours.

 The website of Ultime Realite, a company in Besancon, eastern France, says: “You will go through the real sensations of violence, terror and fear of a real kidnapping – a psychological shock that you won’t forget in a hurry.”

 Customers explain how they want to be kidnapped and once the scenario is established, they sign a contract and liability waiver, but have no idea exactly when or where their abductors will strike.

 ”We follow you for a few days. At an opportune moment, in the street or elsewhere, we kidnap you,” the contract stipulates.

 Georges Cexus, 28, launched Ultime Realite in January and says it is already receiving two orders a day, mainly from top-level executives. Mr Cexus said nobody was physically hurt during the kidnappings.

 The service echoes the 1997 film The Game starring Michael Douglas, in which the protagonist is trapped in a real-life role-play. But unlike the film, the customer can stop the kidnap with a password.

 Some clients have expressed a desire to try to tackle phobias, including, in one case, being buried alive. Customers can also lead a manhunt, be tracked by a bounty hunter or smuggle “drugs”. Other scenarios include spending a night in a morgue, or attending your own funeral.

 While in-the-know participants might get a kick from the experiences, there are concerns that witnesses may not be as thrilled. A spokesman for the French police said: “There’s no reason for us to ban this service, as the victim is consenting which means there’s no crime.”

 

Positive Mind Power


2010
03.21

Repeat this daily..

I believe it in my mind; I live it in my conduct; I celebrate it with great feelings, I am a unique, never to be repeated miracle of GOD. I rejoice in the joy of God’s love. I know and receive the love of my parents and family. I love myself as a conduct of life. I meet my own needs, because I have a personal emotional maintenance program. I always choose to do the things that are important to me. I choose not to argue. I choose not to lose my temper. I choose to love my job. I choose to get up and go to work each day. I choose my reaction to other people.

I have a good mind and I cultivate its growth. I have a healthy body and I treat it right. I love my family and friends and I put energy, loyalty and effort into these relationships. I have a good memory and can bring forth everything I need from my mind-computer storage bank.

I love people and am a good listener. I give attention to other people and learn from everyone I meet. I know I am becoming what the people I meet and the books/tapes I experience are. I have the courage to believe and to express my beliefs. I have the wisdon to listen and seek to learn from all the people who come into my life.

I take responsible for my life, my career and my relationships.I am good at my career and am constantly growing on my job. I give more than I am paid for on my job as a commitment to excellence. I love life and give my best in everything I do. I set goeals for every area of my life and work toward their achievement. I invest time with my family as a vital function of life. I enjoy sharing my values, my time and my efforts in building better family relationships.

I do not worry; I choose to program a positive course of action instead. I choose to control my thinking and my emotions, so I choose not to worry. I choose to think only those thoughts that please me, so I control my thoughts. My feelings are positive, warm and exciting because my thoughts are clear, positive and enlightening. I live a clam , controlled and serene life. I choose to relax and enjoy life. I choose to pace my schedule so as to invest time in quiet solitude. I choose to enjoy great music to enhance my serenity and peace. I choose to avoid all brassy, conflicting and chaotic sounds.

My thoughts create wholeness within me. They contribute to my peace, because I control what I think. I choose for my mind to only dwell on harmony, balance, peace and joy. I look for a simple solution in each situation. I am dedicated to a life of unity, wholeness, harmony, peace and joyful serenity. I am resolved to find the good in any problem.

I choose to help build a world of peace, unity, optimism and self celebration. I choose to do those things that are in my best interested. I determine that all my actions will benefit me and others equally. I will not violate, take advantage or hurt any other person. I regard the personhood of every person as a sacred trust not to be abused. I am committed to the safety of other people from the brutality of evil people.

I look for and expect the best from my every activity. I look for the best and encourage the best in other people. I will not settle for less than the best in myself and in other people. I seek to create the best in me and in others. I attract the best in others because I live for the best for myself. I draw other people to myself by the power of my love and accaptance to them.

I focus the attention of my mind on those things I can change. I leave alone those things I can’t change, and I seek wisdom to know the difference. If there is something I have no control nor influence over, I choose not to fret over it. Of there is something I can change to the good of all, I will set about to do it.

I keep my mind so busy thinking POSITVE thoughts that I have no time nor place for negative thoughts. I have learned to dominate my negative thoughts by replacing them with the opposite, positive thoughts. In time, the number of my positive thoughts will be greater than the number of negative thoughts and then will be positive person. I keep so busy with my positive conduct, I don’t have time or energy for negative thinking. Since no thought can dwell in  my mind wihout my consent. I choose to think only positive thoughts.

I really am very special. I like who I am and apprive of myself. Every day in every way, I am getting better and better. I am growing every day, because I like myself today and will like myself even more when I celebrate my improved greatness. There is no one like me in all the world; I am special. There will never be another person just like me. I’ve always wanted to be someone important, and I’ve given myself approval to do just that. I like how I feel when I achieve my best and I want to feel great all my life. I have many beautiful qualities still within me, breaking out into fulfillment. God has given me many talents and I want to develop them all. As I grow, I am sure I will discover even more talents I have not known to date.

Because I am positive, I radiate good feelings towards everyone I come into contact with. My confidence shows itself as I glow with excitement. I am full of life and I enjoy life every day. I am glad to be alive, because life is a constant growth experience. I am intelligent and I seek the solution to any problem that comes my way. I think good thoughts, do good things and receive good feelings. I have unlimited energy and enthusiasm to put into my life. I share my excitement for life with everyone  I know. I love to be around with positive people, because I draw additional strength from them. I even enjoy being around negative people, for my positive energy is shared with them and I have an unlimited source.

I am a warm, sincere, loving person, whose life is unfolding daily like a rosebud. I like to see the growth in other people I share my zest for living with. I love myself as God’s intent for my happiness. I love other people as God’s command for my conduct. I love life for the joys I experience daily.

 

IAMME

I AM I, ME AND MYSELF

 

~from the book of How to Win with High Self Esteem-Mack R. Douglas

Happy Chinese New Year….


2010
02.11

Haha.. I am Chicken.. in the TIGER year

 2010 Chinese Horoscope for people born in Chicken years: 1909, 1921, 1933, 1945, 1957, 1969, 1981, 1993, 2005.

The lucky Purple Star and Dragon Star come for Chicken people in 2010. They indicate that power, support and leadership may fall upon your shoulders. This is a very good sign for your career; there is a chance of promotion or even pay raise.   Therefore, money luck comes after career. Your wealth will increase mainly from your salary, not from the easy investment.   However, there is an Unlucky Loss Star hiding in the corner. That means there is a chance of failure because of your mistake or negligence. In the year of Metal Tiger, the personality of Chicken people will become more domineering, arrogant and irritable. This makes it easy to have arguments with Chicken people. The social relationship is very important for Chicken people in this year. The poor people relationship might turn the fortune of Tiger year into a different direction. Therefore, Chicken people need to watch their words and deeds in 2010.

Career: The Purple Star appears in the year of Tiger. This means that Chicken people will have the chance to show their talent to people and have the opportunity to act in a leadership role. The Dragon Star implies Chicken people can get help whenever they encounter an obstacle or trouble. Therefore, the career luck is for Chicken people is pretty good. Their job responsibilities will increase and the power of position will expand. A job promotion, job relocation or pay raise are possible. Because another Big Loss Star coming in the same year, there is a chance of up and down in the career path in 2010. Chicken people will have a stronger, determined and domineering personality. It’s very important for Chicken people to pay attention with their expressions and behaviors when dealing with people to eliminate the chance that your enemies may stab you in the back. Money: Chicken people have good money luck in the Metal Tiger year. The major income will come from your career. If you own a business, then Purple Star and Dragon Star will help you to bring in more customers and increase your business profit. If you work for someone, in order to increase more income, you still need the help from your friends, supporters or helpers around. Since the Unlucky Star is there, the money luck might have a chance to become unstable. Therefore, Chicken people still need to watch for the budget and do extra savings, in case that you need a big unexpected expense in the near future. Chicken people shouldn’t do any short-term risky investment. There is no lottery, gambling or windfall luck in 2010.
Love: There is no particular Love Star or Romantic Star coming into Chicken people’s lives. Therefore, if you are single, then you need to be patience for wait for your true love. It’s tough to find someone you like by yourself. But you will have more chance to find a good match who is introduced by your friends or someone always cares you. If you have girl friend or boy friend, then your love relationship will be up and down. Chicken people need to control their temper to avoid the argument and possibly ruin the relationship. Married people might focus more on career and forget about expressing love to their spouses.
Health: The health of Chicken people is fair in 2010. It’s easy for Chicken people get scared or shocked in the Tiger year. One Unlucky Star implies that Chicken people have a chance to get accident.  If there is an injury, it might be related to Metal. Therefore, Chicken people need to pay attention on the safety at home, at work, traveling and driving. Since you have the Dragon Star and Purple Star in 2010, therefore any health issue shouldn’t become a big problem.
Fortune: Basically, Chicken people have a good luck in year of Tiger, because of two major Lucky Stars. The major event in the Metal Tiger year is related to money. The money is connected to friends, siblings, money and father. It’s also connected to spouse for male Chicken people. That means your money luck determined by the relationship with them. Therefore, you need to maintain good social and family relationships. There is a chance that Tiger year brings Chicken people good career luck and money luck together. But Chicken people shouldn’t become arrogant, self-satisfied or conceited. Your speeches and actions might change your fortune in 2010. It’s possible that a mistake can cause the loss of a job, money loss, a broken heart or even an injury.

AS IF I BELIEVE…  =__=”

 

ALRIGHT.. YOUR CLUMSYPANDA BALIK KAMPUNG ESOK..

HAPPY CHINESE NEW YEAR EVERYONE….

Big Headz @ Guardian


2010
01.26

ok loo.. i lose dy..

With him convincing me that Tiger year coming, must change Tiger for good luck.. HE WON THE BATTLE..

After 3 months, spending more than RM600 @ Guardian Pharmacy (am i stupid?), happily sticking all those stickers at the redemption card, aiming for the doe eye, pity looking elephant..

finally, i gave in to Tiger..

Welcome Tiger to the family.. Make sure you bring good luck to us K..

Bigheadz (1)

Nice meh?

Bigheadz

Hubby Panda happy.. So, Ok lor..

Talking about new year. I am so freaking scare of lion dance. And, i will run into hiding whenever there is a lion dance.. so, kia si k. Just feel so uncomfortable with the sound of the qiang qiang and dong dong and kok kok..

The other day, Hubby Panda and I went to giant, Kelana Jaya to buy the groceries and at the same time, to redeem the Big Headz and from far I heard the sound of lion dance’s drum. And, I told Hubby Panda “let’s go home. Please!!” and started to have cold sweat. =________=”… But, guess what?!!! Hubby Panda said it was just the sound of the TV lar………….. kns…

I hate lion dance..

I hate the blinking blinking eye..

And make sure you don’t come blinking blinking in front of me, or else, I will poke your eye.. err.. or, run into hiding, probably.. =_____=

Falling in love with you job again…


2010
01.07

IN MANY ways, a new job is like a love affair

1 EXCITEMENT 

The first stage is excitement. It can last from an hour to many years. You think to yourself: “This job will pay me more money than I’ve ever earned before. The clients will be wonderful to deal with. I’m going to learn so much and do really exciting things.” 

The novelty of the job keeps your energy high. You are happy because you are so productive, and you are more productive because you are so happy. 

2 REALITY 

Then the second stage, reality, sets in. You still enjoy the work you do, but you begin to notice some of the irritants and difficulties. It bothers you that all the phones are ringing when you walk in the door. Deadlines seem endless and impossible. It becomes harder to arrive early or stay late. The novelty starts to wear off. 

3 DISILLUSIONMENT 

And, like love, your job has a third stage too — disillusionment. The pendulum swings past reality, and you find yourself focusing on the negative things. 

That’s when the “maybe’s” begin. 

“Maybe I could make better money at Company X, and not have to work so hard. Maybe I’d be happier with more responsibility at Corporation Y. Maybe Company Z would let me come in a little later in the mornings or go home earlier at night.” 

REKINDLE YOUR FIRST LOVE 

In jobs, as in love, it is very important for the pendulum to swing back. You need to work to regain the exhilaration of the first stage. Such excitement is essential to a fulfilling life. 

Think about what you did to keep the thrill in your love life. 

Maybe the two of you relived your first date at that little country restaurant, or you thought to thank your loved one for being kind and generous. 

Apply this same technique to your career. Rekindle the thrill you felt when you first began your job. You must have had good reasons for taking it. 

What were they? Make a list of them and expect to experience those joys again in your daily routine. 

Begin each day with a smile. Anticipate having a productive, stimulating day. Isn’t that how you used to come to work in the morning? 

If you really expect to be productive, almost nothing can stop you. 

Here are some practical staying-inlove techniques:
1 Have a good breakfast to give you the energy and protein which you need first thing in the morning.
2 Dress with as much pride and attention to detail as you did on your first day of work.
3 Start each day with motivated people who talk about the good things in their lives. Once a week or so, take the initiative to get up a little earlier and have breakfast with some of these people.
4 Get to work as early as you can and spend some quiet time settling in before everyone else arrives. If this is hard, offer yourself some small personal reward. (Mine is that first lingering cup of coffee, all alone, while opening my very exciting e-mail.)
5 Do what I call the “icky” things first. Even the most fantastic job includes tasks that are not much fun. If you get them out of the way, the rest of the day will fly by.
6 Make a list at the end of every day of what you learnt, what was the most fun, who was the most fun to interact with, and how you feel you added to your group’s success. 

Also make a list of the “beyond the pay cheque” benefits. If you only work for the pay cheque, you will be employed, but not “employable” long term. 

There are many realistic ways to keep your relationships and your job exciting and challenging. 

Ultimately, your happiness depends on how good you feel about yourself at work, in love and just living every day. 

Try doing something nice for your job and yourself. Fall in love all over again! 

- Source: Straits Times/Asia News Network 

 why am I sharing this?

Well, great.. i had developed a loveHATE relationSHIP with my job now. I joined this company about 6 years ago, and i fell in love with my job then. Over the years, I doubt. I do love my job, do love the company I work with. But, the problem is I am tired- both mentally and physically. At times I do wish I can just go on leave for 1- 2 months and come back with high spirit again. But, I guess itis not the culture here in Malaysia. Envy my friend who work in US who can go on leave for one month. Not fair lor. jealous lor..

I NEED A LONG BREAK!!

 oh.. did i just mentioned I need a long break? I will be on leave 1 week next week, BUT I DONT CONSIDER THAT A LONG BREAK K..

And I do love this Phrase “COME ON!! GIVE ME A BREAK!!!!”