My Clumsy Panda

Feeling insecure in job. Feeling insecure in relationship. Feeling insecure among friends. Being worried all the time. I solute for those who take the feeling of insecurities humbly. But, there were people who felt insecured and would seek attention without realising that their behavior somehow rather hurt the people around them. They were playing a mind game. Maybe they did it unintentionally. But, the point is respect. Everyone need to be respected. For example, there were people who keep talking bad or “gossip” about others as they felt, by gossiping they will get the attention they needed. And assumed the audience will start to develop negative thought for the ”victims” and theyare the “angel”.  Another example was they will tend to make jokes or tell something negatively of someone “in front of everybody” and thought they will get the credit. Pardon me.. We are living in the modern world where I perceived everyone can judge smartly by themselves. Who is a good guy and who is a bad guy.. everyone know how to make the balancing.. Many times.. people will begin to realise the true colours of the people they know. They need not have to “pre-told” of what is a character of someone- through conversation, through mixing around.. everything will be revealed out-in a matter of time!! The solution for those people who felt insecure was they need to know the root of their problem. They need to overcome the lack of confident of themselves. Whatever the situation they feel insecure about, building self confidence and collecting the necessary skills that make them feel sure of their abilities will be enough to eliminate their feelings of insecurity. Those with confident feeling need not bother about seeking attention as they are just proud of what they are. They won’t mind what others think or say.. And, for those who were victims for the insecure people, just shrug it off. Do not feel hurt. Do not feel bad. Do not fight back. Do not show any respond. Play a mind game too. As the more you felt offended, they won. Just smile. It takes a lot of patient. But, worth it!! Do not wrestle with a pig in the mud!!

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